Let's Find Your Mate
Plan for Your Happily Ever After
Let's Find Your Mate
Plan for Your Happily Ever After
How We Can Help
Pursue Love and Happiness
You deserve to feel and express love in a happy, healthy and inspiring relationship with a strong, equal partner who is loving, caring and kind. Do you know how to find, attract and maintain this caliber of relationship?
The Listen First Approach
Everyone deserves a loving relationship with a person who gets them on a core level. Unfortunately, not everyone finds their person. Even worse sometimes the right person gets pushed away or turned off because their significant other is blocked and hasn't worked to overcome their barriers to openness and vulnerability. If you are blocked in life, you will be blocked in love. This is why you must Listen First. You must listen first to your own heart, mind, soul and internal emotional landscape and hear who you are and what you want. You must also listen to your own instincts and inner most desires. After you have learned to Listen First to yourself, you must learn to Listen First to those who already share your life – your friends, your family, maybe even your therapist – the people who know you best and care about you the most. You need to ask the people who know you why they think you are not yet in a rewarding relationship. This is not to say that you need to agree with them or take their advice. You simply need to Listen First. Find out what others, who may be well-positioned to see your emotional blind spot, think about love life or lack thereof.
Finding Your Person
Once we have compiled all that you have learned to hear from yourself and from those who love you, then we will learn to look for the right person for you. The person who will love and accept you, grow with you and challenge you in the ways that you need and want – in order to build the relationship and future you desire. As you meet prospective mates, you learn to Listen First. You will learn that people are constantly telling you or warning you about who they are from the first moment of contact - be it during a classic meet cute in line at the store or in their dating app profile through the initial text and on those first dates and for as long as you know them. Human beings are constantly sending and receiving signals and information both consciously and subconsciously - but to pick up on the signs that indicate if they are a match for you or not...You must Listen First.
After the Happily Ever After...
If you think the rule of Listen First ends once you know the person through and through, think again. If you want to maintain a healthy, happy, nurturing relationship all the days of your life, you must continue every day to Listen First.